Monday, December 7, 2015

The Role of Covenant and Familial Relationships among the People of God



Covenant – A Divine Drama of Love
            The Bible is the story of covenant. It is a divine drama of love. The Scriptures describe a passionate love story founded upon the fidelity of God and His desire to present to Himself a beautifully adorned bride at the final consummation of all things. This love language is expressed by Isaiah who describes God as “husband” to his people whom He called “like a woman forsaken and grieved in spirit, like a youthful wife” (Is. 54:5-6). The great prophet speaks of salvation as the clothing of wedding garments with the “robe of righteousness” as God’s covering for His people the same way a bridegroom and bride adorn themselves for the wedding ceremony. Certainly the Song of Songs is a literal description of a lovers and his beloved “fairest among women” (Songs 1:8) but it is also a metaphor of beauty as we are reminded of the wooing love that God has for His bride. As God created male and female in His own image we are uncertain as to the precise meaning of the imago dei but we can agree that it at least speaks of intimacy in relationship. The Bible rises to an intimate climax of this relationship as God unites with His bride in Revelation 21. As the holy city, the New Jerusalem, descends out of heaven she is “prepared as a bride adorned for her husband” (Rev. 21:2). The seven angels show John “the bride, the Lamb’s wife” (Rev. 21:9) in the rest of the chapter and she is described as radiant beauty illumined as the splendor of precious jewels. These vivid marital metaphors call us to embrace the Bible as God’s love letter to His cherished people; a people on the journey to their final consummation. It is a proposal to draw intimately near to the One who loved them to a point of seeking and saving them at the greatest cost to Himself.
Covenant Between God and His People
            Covenant is the way God deals with His children. He covenantally pursues the first rebellious couple and restores the relationship they had broken. The first occurrence of the word “covenant” (Hb. berit) is in Genesis 6 when God “establishes” His covenant with four couples who are sealed with an ark. Even when they threaten the relationship, God keeps it.  He promises to keep His covenant with Abraham and his future descendants who will be a tribe. Abraham fails but God is faithful. The divine embrace will extend to 12 tribes and their trials will reveal the fatherhood of God in His preservation of His family. Progressively it will become evident that God’s New Testament (covenant) will be ratified by the blood of His only begotten Son and will extend beyond all boundaries to “every tribe and tongue and people and nation” (Rev. 5:9).
            God knows the infidelity of His people. He does not depend upon them for the keeping of His covenant. This does not, however, remove them from the responsibility of covenant faithfulness. Christ clothes His children with His robe of righteousness but they must also “put on” Jesus Christ. God meets Abraham in Genesis 15 to “cut” (Hb. carat) a covenant. The Hebrew word “carat” means “to cut off”. To cut a covenant is a distant concept for us to grasp but contextual study reveals a variety of uses. It can refer to the cutting of the foreskin, a cluster of grapes, or the head of a man. These uses remind us of the obtaining of something in the process of cutting off but they only point us to further investigation. The ancient Hittites spoke of cutting the palms of the hands of two men and the blood bond made by shaking hands for a major agreement. Some believe this illustrates the carat idea of covenant but most biblical scholars go further. The cutting of a covenant involved the cutting of a sacrificial animal into two parts as shown in Genesis 15. Abraham prepared the sacrifices by “cutting them in two, down the middle” and presented them to God (Gen. 15:10).  It is believed that the seriousness of the life given in the sacrifice is a picture of what is being expressed and that this symbolic act is saying, “may this be done to me if I violate this covenant”. Interestingly enough, Abraham is in a deep sleep (vs. 12) as the covenant ceremony takes place and it is God who walks between the two parts of the sacrifice (vs. 17). Good news for us indeed! If the preservation of the covenant was based upon Abraham’s faithfulness (or mine!) failure and death for all would be certain. Perhaps this is why God “swore by Himself” in His promise to Abraham (Heb. 6:18). There is no one greater by whom God could certify His guarantee. Everyone knows a guarantee or warranty is only as good as the name behind it. God’s name is sure. So God walks between the two parts of the sacrifice and guarantees covenant preservation of His people. He is saying, “May this grotesque picture of death and destruction be done to Me if I ever violate this covenant”. He “swore by Himself” and “showed more abundantly to the heirs of promise [that’s us!] the immutability of His counsel” (Heb. 6:17). He reverses the death of Genesis 3 by the blood of the Lamb of God and nothing “shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Rom. 8:39).
Covenant Not Contract
            We use contracts to try and keep each other honest. Yet, we still need judges and attorneys and codified laws. Contracts are helpful tools but a covenant goes deeper. A contract involves the exchange of property and its binding power depends upon the integrity of the people who make it. A covenant involves the exchange of persons and its binding power rests in the character of God. Contracts desire profits and are a legal instrument to fulfill the desire. Covenant desires love and is a sacred union to complete the affection. A person seeks to preserve himself and his rights in a contract while Jesus uses covenant to preserve His blood-bought children. Contracts can be broken. Covenants can be violated but not broken. The sacrifice of love in divine covenant assures us that God has obligated Himself to reconcile those who are His.
            To be in covenant with God is to be in covenant with the permanent and immutable “Ancient of Days…who was, and is, and is to come” and who has promised “to never leave us nor forsake us” (Heb. 13:5). It is the immutability of God which brings us to irrevocability of his covenant. Isaiah spoke of a coming day in which God would, according to His covenant, “take away the sin of Jacob” (Is. 27:9). After all the generations of Jacob (Israel) straying from their God, we find He is still fighting to preserve His covenant. Paul applies this to the people of God in Romans 11:28. He says, “all Israel will be saved…concerning the election…they are beloved…for the gifts and the calling are irrevocable”. The “spoken out ones” of election have God’s irrevocable call upon them which is a divinely non-regrettable and non-repentant call. To break this calling and election would be to break the unbreakable God. This is why all of the true Israel of God will be saved. The covenant-keeping God cannot be broken and neither can the fulfillment of His promise to His people. God will always fight to preserve His covenant. 
Covenant in the Family of God
            Every good story contains conflict. The divine drama of God’s love story is no different. Actually, it is the root of all other good stories. This is the original. The struggle of Man versus God, Man versus Man, Man versus self, and Man versus Nature are more than literary devices. They are real and destructive problems which are overcome by covenant. We need a covenantal mind to understand God’s working of history and to discern the times in which we live. It is the strength and wisdom that comes from our covenant enjoyment with God that will renew us for the fidelity necessary in living out our other covenants. The first four of the Ten Commandments point us to covenant with God before turning us to live at peace with others. It is our love of God which comes from affectionately celebrating His love for us that will then empower us to love others. It is this love that we must teach to our covenant brothers and sisters. Covenant is a family relationship.
            How can we help others enjoy the covenant love of God? First, we must serve others without any thought of ourselves. The Son of Man did not come to be served but to serve. So should we. Paul dared not even to think of himself enough to pass judgment of himself (1 Cor. 4:3-4). I wonder if we are willing to consider the possibility that the very self-saturated people with whom we become so frustrated are partially indulging themselves because they see and hear us do the same. Covenant keepers serve others, not themselves. How many of us have developed a sense of entitlement to a paycheck or to be complimented or respected or spoken well of or subtly think we deserve to live at a level comparable to others? Are we not “the filth of the world, the offscouring of all things?” (1 Cor. 4:13) Did not Jesus promise us a cross and baptism of His sufferings? Let us serve others no matter the cost. Do not become a fleeing hireling but be a good under-shepherd who lays down his life for the sheep (John 10:11-12). Second, let us demonstrate staying power. May we display the glorious love of covenant in our churches by staying faithful to a local bride as long as we shall live. I know God moves people to serve at different places and in different times but we also know that many are blaming God for their infidelity as they move from church to church. We are good at spiritualizing our desire to go somewhere bigger of seemingly easier. Let us build where we are, no matter how hard it is. I pray we are the generation of pastors willing to pay the price of our lives in order to help in the restoration of Christ’s bride. May we be the tools of faithful covenant love that He uses to “sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, the He might present her to Himself a glorious church” (Eph. 5:26-27). Third, always be the initiator of reconciliation. God pursued Adam and He pursues you. The culpability is always ours in covenant with God and yet He is always the initiator of the reconciliation. Too often we are concerned with proving we are right instead of seeking peace with a deceived soul. How will they be turned away from their dark deception if we are not willing to love them the way Christ loves us? Away with the playground battles of who did what to me. God “has reconciled us to Himself through Jesus Christ, and has given us the ministry of reconciliation” (2 Cor. 5:18). Fourth, model covenant integrity in marriage. Draw closer to your wife. Break down the walls that both of you have built. Win her all over again with words and acts of affectionate kindness. When other look at us with our spouses, may they see a loving and respectful couple who enjoy Jesus together. Laughter, prayer, joy, service, spiritual and physical intimacy, and unity – These are the marks of covenant marriage. Jesus gave His life for His bride, and we must follow Him. When the covenant is threatened, God goes to work to preserve His bride. Threats from without and violations from within only intensify God’s efforts to keep the promise He made to His wife. May our wives know that with great passionate love we will do the same. Fifth, celebrate covenant renewal in corporate worship. Each time we gather as a church family we are renewing the covenant we have with one another. Remembrance of the Lord’s Supper is to be an awakening in our spirit that Christ ratified this divine covenant on our behalf. Each celebration of baptism is a reminder of the covenant seal God has placed upon us as well as our daily union with Christ. Lift up high the beauty of covenant with each presentation of ourselves in the act of collective worship. Finally, be honest about your covenant with God. The only reason I am still in covenant with God is that He is faithful. I am a cheater, a fool who prostitutes my soul for lesser things. As C.S. Lewis said, “we are half-hearted creatures, fooling about with drink and sex and ambition when infinite joy is offered us, like an ignorant child who wants to go on making mud pies in a slum because he cannot imagine what is meant by the offer of a holiday at the sea. We are far too easily pleased”. Do not be afraid to let your church people know they have another ignorant friend sitting beside them in the slum making mud pies in their pastor. I do not mean to tell everything, but be honest about struggling. People do not need details about your mud pies but they do need you to be humble. Point them to the covenant faithfulness of our loving God. Read to them the love letter the Holy Spirit has sent His beloved family. Teach them in word and in deed the divine drama of God’s passionate love story for His bride. To the glory of God the Father and our Lord Jesus Christ, in the power of the Holy Spirit.  

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